Pep-Talk..

HI guys!
So I've been sat here in my bed on my computer determined to write this long-due blogpost. I'm sorry I haven't posted anything the last few weeks I've just been on and about with school and life..
In this post I have decided to share some beautiful quotes on love and life which I hope will cheer you up if you are in a kind of bad mood or just put a smile on your face. These words have very much built me up during rough times. I think that sometimes you just need a little reminder and some nice words to bring back the positiveness and stay strong.

''Behind every beautiful girl there is a guy who did her wrong and made her strong''

''Its like she had a soul too big for her ; it filled her to the brim till there was no more space, so it flowed out through her eyes'' - Nick Lake

''But she had that laugh, and the sound of it was so beautiful, that when you heard it, it was as if your eyes saw her through your ears and she was transformed.'' - Diane Setterfield

''It was rather beautiful : the way she put her insecurities to sleep. The way she dove into her eyes and starved all the fears and tasted all the dreams she kept coiled beneath her bones'' - Christopher Poindexter

''The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes that she wears, the figure that she carries or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman must be seen from her eyes because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides.'' - Audrey Hepburn

''Beauty is not in the face, it is a light in the heart'' - Khalil Gibran

''She is delightfully chaotic ; a beautiful mess. Loving her is a splendid adventure'' - Steve Maraboli

''He found her most beautiful not when she was all fancied up but when she wasn't. When she wasn't trying to impress anyone and she had taken down all the walls she had built for most people. That's when he couldn't take his eyes off her''

YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL. Don't let anybody tell you any other way. Because there is no definition of beauty and everybody is beautiful in his and her own way.
When somebody hurts you or breaks your heart or you go through a bad break up, always see it as a lesson. It taught you to be strong, to get through it, to move on and to realize what you do not want and that you deserve more. As hard as it is, and trust me, I know, don't ever settle for less. For less than you deserve. Because you will end up consuming yourself for something you cannot change. It's not anybodies fault. You cannot demand things you need from someone who doesn't have anywhere to take them from. Some people are just not compatible. But THERE IS a right person for you. But to find him/her to need to let go of the person who cannot give you what you need/want. I believe that for each life-phase we have one love. I believe that because people change. And it is very likely that you just simply don't get along with the person you thought your will marry anymore after a few years. But that is normal. And the next love will come.
I for example had my first boyfriend when I was 14. We broke up a few months ago after almost 3 years. Of course it hurt and of course there where times when I thought my chest was going to explode. But I still knew that I didn't want to go back to him. Because we had both changed. It is hard to find the person you will spend the rest of your life with at such a young age. Because the probability that you two will change in a way you still fit to one another in this phase of so much transition is very unlikely. This is what happened to us. We both wanted different things from life and we just didn't like the person the other one had become. We fit together 3 years ago but now we don't anymore. Although it hurt and we both miss the company and the habit of being together, we had to accept it. Of course I still love him, he was my first and I will never forget him. But I had to open my eyes and realize this was the best for myself. I took many wonderful memories out of the relationship but I'm so young and there is so much more to come. So I decided to stay strong and enjoy the next chapter of my life.
If you are having similar problems or thoughts, I hope this helped you. Just remember that everything happens for a reason and nothing is ever as bad as it may seem. Stay strong.
I love you.
-Lilly

P.S:
I decided to start a youtube channel and I uploaded my first video yesterday. Check it out if you like :)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_rxf11Z_PNA

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Fall inspired Haul

As the weather is getting colder and colder and the official start of Fall was a few days ago, I was inspired to do a haul showing you guys some bits and pieces that I have picked  up over the past couple of weeks. 

Hope you enjoy!